I woke up to truffles' pangungulit to make pansin of her. She's a dog btw. (I've been babysitting my brother's girlfriend's pet truffles these past few days.She went to malaysia kasi kaya yun, Eh i love dogs so walang problema)
anyway, I realized that I'm really hungy na so I went to the kitchen to have breakfast!:)
Papa was watching CSI: Cyber Eh I got curious. Short background, I grew up watching my papa's favorite series. Eh yung mga fave niya, Alias, Csi Las vegas, csi miami basta mga crime and investigation sh*t, action flicks etc. you knoooow. daddy stuff.
The episode was interesting. It was about a girl who rejected this guy's offer to buy her a drink in the club and then that guy stalked her. Apparently, Guy A (rejected guy at the club) found the girl in this dating app. So Guy A made a fake account in the app and flirted with the girl etc. Let's name the other guy, Guy B (the identity used in the fake account). Then, Guy A got upset because the girl is entertaining Guy B (he's still the one handling the fake account though) SO he killed guy B and framed the girl by making her come to guy b's place right after guy A murdered guy B. ang gulo ko magkwento. basta. he made it look that the girl murdered guy B kasi he drugged her when she got to Guy B's place and checked her in a motel with the murder weapon under her bed and her finger prints and DNA stuff all over guy B's blood and place.
anyway, whyyyy am I telling you this???
I don't want to assume that I have a stalker but this guy really freaked me out a bit.
I met this guy in the dating app Tinder.
He seemed nice and sweet and all so I braced myself to meet up with him since the mall where he works is near to the clinic I used to work for (He's the Operations manager for china cheverloo of that mall) anyway.
It just so happened kasi na my friend who's going to perform at this music festival sa mall na yun put me in the guestlist to enter for free and she said i could bring 20 more friends or something but it was short notice eh so I didnt have any friend to go with since most of my friends had plans na (friday night eh). Given that, pumayag na lang din ako to meet up with this guy since i'm planning to drop by sa event to see my friend just to support her and then leave na.
So anyway, edi we met na blah blah blah fast forward. after that I refused to see him na.
He like, texted and called me several times pero I dont want to see him anymore.
What's weird is that he blocked my number.
I wasnt sure though so i checked with my friend's phone. I dialed his number and it rang so obviously he blocked. And then moments later he was calling my friend's phone. We ignore his first call but he called again so we decided na pagtripan na lang sya.
we freaked out when he found out where we were. My friend was the one talking to him and she was like "alam niya kung *insert mall here* tayo"
and I'm like, fine sabihin mo na nga. then he talked to me.
He was like . "Akala ko ba magkikita today tapos biglang di pwede. ayoko sa lahat yung malabo kausap blah blah blah blah blah."
i'm like "whoah kuya, girlfriend mo ba ako? maka demand ka, kung magalit ka its as if may responsibilities ako sayo na I need to spare you my time eh weve only met once" *in my head lang*
what I really said was: sorry. Ayoko kasi na ako pa yung pupunta sayo to meet up with you. ako pa yung mageeffort. ayoko sa pa chicks. *straight to the point mofooooo*
sabi nya: Eh ba't di mo sinabi? madali lang naman ako kausap eh. sana sinabi mo kung nasan ka. ako pupunta.
wow. doesn't seem like it when we were talking. anyway fast forward.
hindi na kami nag usap since then. I was super shocked with his reaction. we were like boyfriend/girlfriend fighting on the phone. SO yun na un. the convo ended with me, saying sorry in a sarcastic way and then he dropped the call.
a couple of months later. we matched in tinder again. I swiped right because I was curious if he would still swipe right sakin.
He messaged me asking if we could meet again blah blah blah. of course i di ako pumayag.
THEEEEEEEEEEEEN. SEVERAL MONTHS LATER AS IN LIKE SUPER DUPER RECENTLY LANG TO. LAST JUNE LANG,(this whole thing happened last year pa) HE FOUNF ME ON FB.
I HAVE A STRICT FILTERING THING. YOU CANNOT FIND ME WITH MY EMAIL ADDRESS. He doesn't even know my real name.You can't find me if we dont have common friends.
We don't even have any mutual friends!!! So I wonder how'd he find me on fb?!?!?! how the hell???
and he was like using a fake account? his picture is an edited fb default photo na naka hood. so scary diba. tapos his name is in chinese characters.
he messaged me june. i was still in the province plus nasa "others" na folder ung message so ididnt notice it.
when I saw it, I seen zoned him. tapos he messaged me again, july. asking if we could meet up again. I was being nice so i said ayoko maging rude and all pero do I know you. normally, di ko papansinin. but navibes ko agad na siya yun, cuz he's the only person i know who's capable enough to pull that kind of stunt lol. anywayyyy. so ayun. until september 1st i sent him a long message basta i kind of took the high road na lang.
anyway, this post is too long. I'm just scared na baka he can track my phone. maybe i should get a new phone?
idk. wah. natakot lang ako sa csi cyber. Baka he googled my name pa. (eh hindi rin mahahanap fb account ko through google. sobrang di nga ako mahahanap sa fb unless we have a common friend.) Sana may girlfriend na siya. Or sana hindi ako napagtripan ng mga ex friends ko. but he sent me a selfie sa fb to prove na it was him.
anyway, I'm so glad I dont do tinder na. like never na as in. sobrang daming jej na. before nung bago pa yun matitino pa medyo yung tao ngayon, baka may serial killer na, na paggala gala dun.
girls, if ever you agreed to meet up with someone you met on dating apps or social media. be sure to bring someone with you. after that incident kasi when one of my friends meets up with someone from tinder we bring the whole squad na. sorry guys, better safe than sorry diba.
Minsan nakakakaba kasi na tatrack na phones ngayon.
i dont know him personally pero why'd he even look for me in fb and ask to me again and for a fresh start. gosh. desperate times need desperate measures? kating kati na ba? dami namang iba diyan.
hay nastress ako! hahahaha.
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