I mean like, would you just have it short all of a sudden, when you invested so much time and energy taking care of it? would it be that easy to give it up just like that?
I don't know about long-haired guys, but, for most of us girls, it is not easy to let go of our locks.
We invest so much money, spend so much time fixing it and thinking of what kind of 'do we would have for the day, you know girl stuff.
PLUS, we girls, believe (correct me if im wrong) that our hair has a big impact on how we look(its not easy to risk our long hair when we seriously have no idea how we look with short hair, if it would make us pretty or ugly) . So yeah, we basically need a whole week or maybe a month to decide whether we'd stay friends with our long hair or FO na, If its causing too much of a hassle and not worth the effort, time and energy anymore, & we really need to get rid of it... Ooooor, we just dont want to have it long anymore then we need a hell lot of time. and i mean A LOT.
I don't know about long-haired guys, but, for most of us girls, it is not easy to let go of our locks.
We invest so much money, spend so much time fixing it and thinking of what kind of 'do we would have for the day, you know girl stuff.
PLUS, we girls, believe (correct me if im wrong) that our hair has a big impact on how we look(its not easy to risk our long hair when we seriously have no idea how we look with short hair, if it would make us pretty or ugly) . So yeah, we basically need a whole week or maybe a month to decide whether we'd stay friends with our long hair or FO na, If its causing too much of a hassle and not worth the effort, time and energy anymore, & we really need to get rid of it... Ooooor, we just dont want to have it long anymore then we need a hell lot of time. and i mean A LOT.
Same with relationships, we all invest a lot in it.
We would do everything to fix it, if something goes wrong.
We would make sure that we don't screw up and mess it up.
AND we would always put our best efforts to maintain it.
But what if all of a sudden nothing feels and seems right anymore, what do we do?
We would do everything to fix it, if something goes wrong.
We would make sure that we don't screw up and mess it up.
AND we would always put our best efforts to maintain it.
But what if all of a sudden nothing feels and seems right anymore, what do we do?
If It is not making us happy anymore, problems keep on piling and nothing is solved...do we just cut it off? let it go? burn bridges? what?
diba?
Just like the long hair, its causing too much problem, no matter how many times we try to fix it, get treatment at the salon etc, it just not enough.
It will eventually become the ugly, dead and dry hair of ours again. Oh no wait, it is UGLIER and more dead and dry because of the chemicals we put on it.
And then when it returns to the ugly hair, we repeat the procedure, again and again and again til we get tired of maintaining our dead and helpless hair.
Tapos, We'd realize, why the hell are we spending so much money, time and effort to maintain our hair, it just wouldnt get fixed. Why suffer the hassle when we could just get a haircut and wait til it grow again?
Yes, It would take time to grow it but life would be so much easier without the dead and dry hair, right?
It will eventually become the ugly, dead and dry hair of ours again. Oh no wait, it is UGLIER and more dead and dry because of the chemicals we put on it.
And then when it returns to the ugly hair, we repeat the procedure, again and again and again til we get tired of maintaining our dead and helpless hair.
Tapos, We'd realize, why the hell are we spending so much money, time and effort to maintain our hair, it just wouldnt get fixed. Why suffer the hassle when we could just get a haircut and wait til it grow again?
Yes, It would take time to grow it but life would be so much easier without the dead and dry hair, right?
Right, its definitely going to grow naman, sooner or later, healthier pa.
In the case of relationships, yea, why wouldnt we just get rid of it?
If were tired and we see that its not working out anymore then why not just let go and move on, take a breather.
Why don't we save ourselves from the hassle of a stressful, toxic and tough relationships?
Do we not realize that we're just wasting our time?
Is it really worth saving?
Why dont we just let it go and suffer a one time big time heartache and move on with our lives and enjoy a peaceful and less stressful life?
Pain is temporary naman eh.
Sure, It would take a lot of getting used to but, we would all be fine eventually.
In the case of relationships, yea, why wouldnt we just get rid of it?
If were tired and we see that its not working out anymore then why not just let go and move on, take a breather.
Why don't we save ourselves from the hassle of a stressful, toxic and tough relationships?
Do we not realize that we're just wasting our time?
Is it really worth saving?
Why dont we just let it go and suffer a one time big time heartache and move on with our lives and enjoy a peaceful and less stressful life?
Pain is temporary naman eh.
Sure, It would take a lot of getting used to but, we would all be fine eventually.
Going back, just like the time we need to grow our hair, i guess, its same with the time we need to grow as a person. (everything takes time) its not gonna be easy but im pretty sure its worth it.
***Remember, it takes 2 grown-ups to make a relationship work.
If youre currently in a relationship and nothing seems right, think again, maybe the two of you needs to grow up first (baka lang naman, kung sobrang di na maayos talaga).****
to cut your long hair short is risky, scary, uncomfortable. we would always miss the way our long hair feels hanging back there and it wouldnt be the same again :( (but dont worry, hahaba din naman yan)
On the other hand, having short hair after a long time of maintaining long locks would make you feel light (?) idk, basta something like worry-free. i dont know. to each his own. that's my opinion, it feels light. like a ton of burden was taken from my shoulders. ayun.
this is something that I suddenly thought of because i was really bored. (and I was high when I wrote this)
-----long overdue post. i do not have the time to edit it so im just going to post it.
im just ranting, forgive me.
***Remember, it takes 2 grown-ups to make a relationship work.
If youre currently in a relationship and nothing seems right, think again, maybe the two of you needs to grow up first (baka lang naman, kung sobrang di na maayos talaga).****
to cut your long hair short is risky, scary, uncomfortable. we would always miss the way our long hair feels hanging back there and it wouldnt be the same again :( (but dont worry, hahaba din naman yan)
On the other hand, having short hair after a long time of maintaining long locks would make you feel light (?) idk, basta something like worry-free. i dont know. to each his own. that's my opinion, it feels light. like a ton of burden was taken from my shoulders. ayun.
this is something that I suddenly thought of because i was really bored. (and I was high when I wrote this)
-----long overdue post. i do not have the time to edit it so im just going to post it.
im just ranting, forgive me.
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