hahaha. i'm definitely one of the boys but I am so not emotionally attracted to girls (physically, hhmmmm ang dami kasing hot girls sooo, sometimes hihi)
So yeah, why the title? haha. well, a few months ago, there has been a rumor about me that i am dating this girl and that we're actually together daw. of course, i laughed the eff of my ass off when i heard of it.
i mean seriously people. can I not be just friends with someone without malice? lagi ba dapat may something?
i did not make a big deal out of it because, obviously, these people do not know me. If they do (friends ko pa "daw" yung iba na nagkakalat ah) they would defend me and laugh at that someone who's spreading the rumor, but noooo, they believed that person and spread it too! (yan spread lang ng spread eh, hirap pag mahilig mag spread.....ng legs, JOKE)
guys, you have to learn how to treat people equally.
if you consider someone as your "girl friend" then treat her the way you treat your other girl friends even if that person is sexually challenged. Dude, she is still a girl. you dont discriminate her or treat her differently just because she's not as girly as you are. diba? what you should do is try to influence her with your girliness (does that word even exist?) and try to make her a girl? (am I making any sense?) haha. but if it wont work, then that's fine. you don't want to force people to do things they dont want to. so just be there for them and be their friend.
just because youre being nice to that person and you guys are like being close and stuff then that doesnt mean that you have feelings for that person already.
the problem with most of us is that we tend to judge people immediately when in fact we dont really know what's happening and we dont even know anything literally.
My cousin (lesbo cousin) who lives in US told me that maybe people thought of me as a lesbian because I openly accept that people like them exist. plus, its different here nga daw in the philippines. most of the people are malicious daw.
oh well, enough of the drama.
ive come to the point where i dont really care what people think about me because, either way, they're going to judge me. Plus, i'm working on spreading love and care and empathy and all the good stuff that you can give to the people (the best things to give daw ay love, care etc emotional stuff not material things) so that I can receive those as well.
you should be a loving person too. :) good vibes only!:)
PS, it doesnt just go with lesbians ah, if youre a dude and you have a gay friend(kahit hindi mo friend as long as that person treats you right), be open-minded, remember, if that person is just friends with you, he/she will be just friends with you no matter what. nothing more, nothing less.
#lesbians #lesbo #LGBT #LGBTCOMMUNITY #ISupportLGBTCommunity
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