I know I'm not perfect. I used to hate on a lot of stuff so much.
I get pissed easily by a lot of things, little things.
I am so good at judging and bashing people even if they didn't harm me naman.
I used to be really mean, i'm saying this because this post is a "preach" kind of post, and i dont want you to think that I am a righteous person.
Looking back, I dont even know why I did those things.
kahit naman ngayon, I still cannot filter my thoughts.
I mean, sometimes i still have negative thoughts, BUT, lesser compared before.
plus now, whenever i think of something negative I immediately tell myself "Nope, niksi, kalma lang. no hate, just love. No hate, Just love." (that's my mantra na)
I know, ive done a lot of mistakes before, but you know, its never too late to fix them and change(i'm only 24, i still have a lot ahead of me)
I know, there are people that ive hurt.
I also havent really settled a lot of past issues, but of course, I am very much willing to clear everything. I just dont think it's the right time yet. I don't want any "resistance". And if there is, the only thing that I can do is to let it be. It's better that way than to force myself into something that just wont happen. So, I'll wait (for the right moment)
What i'm trying to say is, I'm not perfect. I have flaws. I am human, its my nature to make mistakes.
BUUUUT. We werent described as the Most intelligent animal in this planet if we cannot do something about it diba? So we can improve our personality. And that's what ive been working on lately.
I still have tendencies to hate, but as much as possible, whenever I hear negative stuff about me, I try to understand the situation of the other party na lang (the one who's hating on me). I mean, if that's what he/she feels about me. If that's his/her judgment. I cannot do anything about it. I can defend myself but what's the point. The person has his/her own mind. you cant control them. if they dont like me then fine.
everyone is entitled to their own opinion :)
Guys, let's not hate. Let's love each other.
I know not everyone is lovable or likable and we would always find a reason not to like someone (even if its our first time to see or meet that person. laging may judgments, even if we don't really know that person).
Why do we need to have assumptions on someone that we dont even know? It's useless. total waste of energy. you will only stress yourself. and when youre stressed, your body will release cortisol. and do you know what cortisol does to your body? it can make you fat. (if you want to know how, google can answer that :D) so if you're conscious about your physical appearance. Relax. Chill. Good vibes! haha!
ANYWAY, let's just try to be positive and loving and not hate on so much people.
PLUS, let's not assume pala (i almost forgot)[this is a whole different story though)
If we're not sure of something. i mean if there's no evidence and we're just making assumptions based on our observations, let's not be suspicious na lang. better yet, just confront that person instead of, assuming of something na he/she did and youre not even sure naman.
Kaya nga there's a so-called "due process" diba,
"Innocent until proven guilty" yun lang.
Anyyyyy
SMILE! SPREAD GOOD VIBES AND LOVE :)
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