Warning: #hugot post
After an end of a relationship, everyone goes thru some phase.
after you pour out all the tears that you could. After you finished all the bottles of alcohol that you thought numb the pain at the moment. After you danced all the pain away at all the clubs and parties that you went to. after you YOLO-ed enough just to make yourself believe that those were the best days of your life. You know, just like any normal human being living in this planet, you will sober up.
Everything will be back to normal and i guess when you get back to that "normal" it means "dude, let go of the pain, its time to grow up."
And believe it or not this is the only time that you get to have your shit together.
And then you start to realize stuff, You make yourself believe that you only need yourself to be complete. That no one in this world could make you happy aside from yourself, your family, your friends and God etc, etc (some became religious pa nga ha-ha)
Its a long process no? Moving on.
You thought that just because you got over your ex and your feelings for him/her you have already moved on. You thought that just because you have successfully mastered the art of being alone and actually enjoyed it, you're fine na.
Idk about you, but for me, I think I have moved on when I have already let go of all the bad memories and pain of the disaster of my past relationship
I am okay when I am able to open up myself to someone again and when I'm not afraid to get hurt again.
I have moved on when I see a couple and myyour initial reaction is "awww so sweet" not "psh #theresnosuchthingasforever #youwillbreakupsoon #walangforever #damikonghugot #holdinghandspakayomagbreakdinkayo".
And I know that I have moved on when I now have a positive feeling on my future relationship with a possible prospect.(HE-HE-HE)
Well, those are just my opinion.
Ikaw, How can you tell that you have moved on from a traumatic break-up?
do you have your pointers din ba?
#HUGOT #HUGOTPOST #WALANGFOREVER #MAYFOREVERBA
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