In about 2 weeks I'd be turning 25 and someone told me that, i'm supposed to be in a long term relationship na sa age na yun. Idk but I think age is just a number, it shouldnt be something that would dictate kung anong milestone na dapat nareach natin sa buhay at a certain age(but this is a diff story). right?
Don't get me wrong, hindi ako bitter sa pagibig kaya ayaw ko makipagrelationship. in fact, I do believe in forever. I do believe that people who are in love with each other are capable of having a relationship that would last a life time, I believe in love, I believe that love could change people , I believe that love conquers all... Yeah, cheesy pero totoo (oooh soft side revealed lol)
I know many of us have fallen in love, have their heart broken and moved on. I myself have gone thru a lot of heartaches din. hindi maiiwasan, its part of committing in a relationship eh. i think when you love someone you should also accept the fact that you'll get hurt. hindi yung kasi alam mo na in the end magbebreak din kayo, you'll get hurt kasi hindi perfect yung taong minamahal mo. he or she will make mistakes not just once, a couple of times, pati ikaw magkakamali ka but because you guys love each other, in the end you'd still choose to be with that person despite of the things he/she has done wrong. di kayo perfect eh, tao lang kayo.
BUT. for some, hindi talaga. In the end, they'd choose to end things up. well iba iba naman ng reason basta hindi na sila nagmeet eye to eye. Hindi na talaga nagworkout or most probably AYAW na iworkout. they've given up on each other. which is totally normal. I think yung generation today mas career oriented. most of us would rather choose career than love. why not diba? hindi ka naman bubuhayin ng relationship and besides madami namang iba dyan. being practical lang.
And that my friend, is one of the reasons why I wouldnt allow myself to be in a relationship right now.
Ang dami ko pang gustong gawin.hindi pa ako ready, career over love lol.
Plus, I don't think I'm mature enough to accept someone who isnt perfect.
I mean, like, di ko kaya pa na magaccept ng tao na alam kong masasaktan ako.
i'm still selfish and i don't want to have someone for companionship lang tapos made that someone believe na i'm actually thinking of "us" being in a relationship tas friendzone lang pag nag profess na ng love, in short ayoko na magpaasa.
I would lie if i say na hindi pa ako nagpaasa. I did. I have.
and hindi masarap sa feeling yung nakakakonsyensya. plus iisipin pa nila na user ka so wag na lang maging nice, ignore or tell them straight na wala kang balak makipagrelasyon.
what's my point ba?
i think kasi sobrang bitter na ng mga tao puro #walangforever
No guys, may forever, people get married for a reason.
maybe it's just not the right time or hindi lang talaga matured enough to handle a serious relationship kaya nagbebreak or nasasaktan.
kapag may break up, sana hindi laging bineblame sa iisang tao sa relationship ung reason kung bakit nag break. remember guys, dalawa kayo sa relasyon. if nagbreak both of you guys are at fault kasi hinayaan nyo mangyari yun. you guys are supposed to be a team diba?kahit na may third party pa, isipin mo, ano ung reason behind ng paghahanap nya ng iba, maybe may mali ka din.
wala lang. I just realized that Love is about acceptance, trust, and learning how to forgive.
kung di pa ready na magseryoso, wag pilitin kahit na si girl or boy of your dreams na yan.
dapat talaga 100% ready eh. tsaka wag makipagrelasyon kung napilitan lang or takot ka magisa. sobrang No No yan. hehe.
kapal ko magpreach.
#randomrealizations #preach #love #mayforever
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